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Saturday 9 – Father’s Day Eve

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I just found a new blog meme thanks to a new Plurk friend. It’s called Saturday 9. Feel free to click the link to see what the current Saturday 9 are, if I haven’t already blogged about them.

In celebration of Father’s Day, this one is devoted to the4 topic of fathers.

1. How long since you have been with your dad?

It’s probably been about three months now. The last time I spent time with him was when he came down with my brother when my brother went out to prom with his then girlfriend. We got to hang out for quite a while that night, and I had a blast.

2. How many siblings share your dad?

I have two younger brothers and two younger sisters. My sister, amusingly enough is a day (ok, only 11 hours and some odd minutes) younger than my oldest son. Ok, go ahead and read that last sentence again. It will make sense eventually.

3. Will you see your dad tomorrow?

Nope. Unfortunately he lives too far away and I have to work my out-of-the-house job.

4. Do you give him gifts on Father’s Day?

Honestly I haven’t for years. Writing this makes me feel really guilty about that. I’ll probably get a card and send it to him Monday. It’s the thought, right? (Off to my corner now to berate myself for being a bad daughter….)

5. Have you ever had a tough time in your relationship with your father?

I had a worse relationship with him as a child. He was a more scary figure when it came to punishment. At the same time though, he was always there for me and a good friend. He helped me get through some rough family times with humor. Now our relationship more similar to friendship than father-daughter.

6. What was the last thing that you did with your dad?

Hung out with him while my brother and his then-girlfriend went to prom. Didn’t I already answer a question like this? LOL

7. Growing up, was your dad tough on you?

Yes, and no. Depended on what it was about. If it was something he felt strongly about, such as my choice of attire he would um…. strongly object. I felt that at 14 I could walk out of the house in a half top or a bandanna top, and he thought it wasn’t appropriate. Looking back, I must admit that I can see his point.

8. Are you close to your father?

Off and on. We are both so busy nowadays that it’s hard to connect. We used to talk once a week, but things have been so hectic that neither one of us have called the other in a while. I’d have to say it’s a good month when we connect every other week or so.

9. How long since you have spoke to him?

I talked to him a couple weeks ago on the phone. He called to let me know that my brother was going through a rough time. I really haven’t talked to him since then.

Well, that’s it for me. I hope everyone has a great Father’s Day!

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